MINIMIZE TO MAXIMIZE ...... Curb the "More Power" instinct
Whether you are just a part-time closet dresser, or a 24/7 T-Girl, your testosterone-driven mind will always want to take everything to the MAX, and this can prove to be a major problem in refining your femininity. At times, we just need to clear our heads, and use common sense, dismissing the idea that "More is better". While huge boobs may be a real part of the feminization process for many of us, they are not always the answer, if you are looking to achieve a natural feminine look. Your bust size should be more appropriate for your body build and size. The usual make-up choice for novice T-Girls, is the traditional bright blue eye shadow, and blood red lipstick. These vivid colors are embedded in our male brains, and quickly rise to the surface, the second we slip into a dress. Make-up color, and in fact, hair color, have to match up with your natural skin tone, eye color, and other factors, to maximize your natural beauty and feminine appearance. Show us the wildest long, full bodied, wig, and we will want to sell our first born, just to buy it and try it on. Wig color and style are huge factors in your feminine presentation, and selecting just the right wig, can make a big difference in the way you look and feel about your feminine side. We have all bought shoes that are so high, we can't even stand in them. Sure they look hot, but what good are they, if you can't enjoy a nice strut in them? When it comes to color selection, and putting together a decent outfit, we usually become colorblind, mixing articles of clothing in a way that would frighten most normal people. We all have our own little unusual things we love to incorporate into our femine image, and those tastes are just fine. However, if your goal is to maximize your feminine presence, in the hopes of "passing" or actually experiencing your femininity to its best potential, moderation and common sense have to be part of the game plan. In reality, when was the last time you encountered a huge breasted women in public, wearing 7" red pumps, black nylons, a skin tight pink mini-dress, blue eye shadow, and bright red lipstick, with a hair doo that is right out of a cheap porno flick? Many of the girls who we have talked to, say that their feminine image reflects "that ideal girl" that they have never found in their lives. The problem with this, as far as femininity and passing goes, is that this image was created by a male mind, with biased male fantasies. This "Ideal" is not the norm in the genetic female world. To sum things up, at times you just have to minimize, to maximize !!!
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